Thanks. I appreciate your tone here. :-)
I admit that I sometimes prefer God would have done things differently. I also admit I have questions to which there are no easy answers.
As for whether Christians or non-Christians get attacked more, I think it comes down to where we're talking about. Here on Medium, I think skeptics and critics of Christianity are in the majority and it's Christians like me often on the defensive. In other settings, I recognize it's different. Speaking for myself, it's not my desire to attack anyone. I'll attack ideas, but I'd rather not attack people. So thanks for this exchange. I appreciate it.