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Is It Wrong To Hate People?
Yes, and here’s why
We live in a bitterly divided world where hate is as common as oxygen.
People increasingly justify their hate when it is directed against those who hold to (what they deem as) toxic views or engage in (what they see as) abhorrent behavior. The standards by which they make these judgments appear to change not only from generation to generation, but from year to year — even week to week.
Setting aside the postmodernist influences that have helped bring us to this sad point, the fact is that hate — even if you believe it to be justified — is unhealthy.
Holding onto feelings of hate can lead to elevated stress levels, which are associated with a wide range of negative psychological outcomes, including anxiety and depression. Left unchecked, this can lead to physical health issues.
Hatred also colors one’s perspective and outlook, leading to a generally more negative or cynical view of the world, which can diminish overall life satisfaction and happiness. And feed upon itself, thus driving the person even further into hate.
Persistent thoughts of hatred often become obsessive, interfering with one’s ability to focus on other more positive or constructive aspects of life.